I've been critiquing City Bible Church's month long sermon series titled The Gift. Last week we (they) covered the Gift of Love and this week I had the pleasure of listening to a sermon on the Gift of Peace given by Marc Estes.
I have been hoping all along to hear about the Gospel (truth) of Jesus Christ…but I'm coming to realize that CBC has no idea what that is.
I'll try to sum up "The Gift of Peace" according to Marc Estes. Marc started by telling you what a "Gift" was (basic recap of Frank's sermon from last week) and then told you that Baby Jesus was a gift of peace. Marc says that there are 3 things you need to do to make a gift worth anything: 1 – Receive 2 – Unwrap 3 – Apply to your life. His example was this: If someone gives you a box full of cash and you take it but don't open it, then it doesn't do you any good. You have to unwrap the box and apply the money to your life (I have no idea how to "apply money to your life", but my guess is that you put it in the bank). He than said that Jesus wants to give you Peace and all you have to do is receive it.
Apparently, all you need is Jesus in your life and you will find Peace…and not just a partial peace, but a full and complete peace that nothing from this world can penetrate. Marc then read a bunch of scriptures that talk about God wanting you to have Peace. Are you curious what you have to do to get this "peace" in your life? I was, and this is what Marc said you need to do to get this Peace:
Receive. Unwrap. Apply.
Yup, that is it…just Receive the gift of peace, un-wrap that gift of peace and apply that gift to your life. It's so simple. Once again we have another CBC sermon where I'm left saying ???????. Those are some very generic directions. What does that mean? Specifically, how do we Receive, Unwrap, and Apply?
I wish I hadn't asked. Marc ended the sermon with an alter call where he basically told everyone that if they don't have Peace in their life than all they need to do is come down to the alter and ask Jesus into their hearts. It's as if the "Sinner's Prayer" is a magic spell.
I don't know how in the world Marc can say the things he said…I certainly hope he doesn't actually believe them. I have known far too many Great, Godly, Christian Men and Women who did NOT have peace in their life at all times (consider Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane: Mark 26:38). It isn't that easy.
Marc, what do you say to the Christian woman whose spent her whole life living for God along side her Godly husband…who has an unfortunate accident and dies…leaving her alone…
Is there something wrong with her, if she doesn't feel peace?
Let me tell you my thoughts on Peace and Jesus. The peace that comes from knowing Jesus helps when you fully understand that everything (and I mean everything) that happens in this world is ordained (or allowed) by God. The good, the bad, and the in-between all happen with God's permission. The devil can NOT interfere with God's plans for this life. Sometimes, there will be stresses that come into your life. Sickness and Death are two real buggers that can interfere with your Peace, and as much as we may say "God you are in control" it doesn't bring immediate peace, necessarily. Peace from Jesus, in my mind, means accepting that God is in control of all the crap that this life has to offer…there is peace in that.
I'm so tired of CBC teaching that God will solve all your problems. "Just ask Him into your heart children, and he will take over the controls of your life…just trust in Him and he will take care of your problems". "If you are feeling down, just run into His arms and He will hug you and take away your pain".
Maybe….or maybe not.
Let' be REAL for a moment. God set up some simple rules that apply to life. And within those rules are rewards and consequences. Sin has a negative effect on this this world, and sin doesn't just effect the sinner, it can effect those around them even more so.
What happens when people expect God to magically cure all their problems? They get angry at Him when it doesn't happen. Life is Life, people. It isn't going to be easy. Jesus is a good friend, but He isn't a genie in a bottle.
I thought about emailing this to Marc, but I'm quite certain if I did he would just tell me that I completely misunderstood what he was saying. The truth is, I heard him loud and clear. (Marc did spend 10 seconds saying that your life needs to line up with the Bible and God's will in your life and that sometimes when bad things happen it is because God is just trying to get our attention… but his basic theme was that if you are a good Christian you will have perfect peace in your life.)
I say, that although God CAN miraculously take all the stresses away from your life, chances are good that He won't. Do not be discouraged if you are going through a rough time. Again, Life is Life.
My faith in Jesus helps remove the fear of dying, but it doesn't take away my fear of death. If something were to happen to my wife or any of my children I would HURT for a very long time. There would be many nights of pain, stress, anguish…and that would be ok. It wouldn't mean that I am a lousy Christian and it wouldn't mean that God is a liar. Because of Sin we have Death and because of Death we have Pain…this is the life that we have to live in…and it's OK.
Feel free to hurt, feel free to cry, and feel free to know that despite all you are going through God sent His son to earth to pay the price for you sins.
1 Therefore, having been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ,
2through whom also we have obtained our introduction by faith into this grace in which we stand; and we exult in hope of the glory of God.
3And not only this, but we also exult in our tribulations, knowing that tribulation brings about perseverance;
4and perseverance, proven character; and proven character, hope;
5and hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out within our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us.
6For while we were still helpless, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly.
7For one will hardly die for a righteous man; though perhaps for the good man someone would dare even to die.
8But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
The question has come up more than once “How can these guys be so far off?” or “How did a Church or Bible College that was fonded so strongly on biblical principles now find itself in so much error”
In the case of the messages by CBC supposedly on “Grace” how can they not understand the basic message of the Gospel? They have not always been that way but over time have erred concerning the truth and fallen away from what the simple truth of Grace is.
Ken Malmin told me years ago as I sat in his office that CBC was all about principles that they had decided to live by. And even though he may not totally agree with some things that he must live by the principles that all the elders had agreed to. Loyalty to each other (as well and many others) was one of those principles. CBC has put principles (morality) above Jesus and above relationship.
I fond this article today that for me explains alot of why there is so much disparity between what once was and what now is…It’s is only 3 degrees of seperation in the beginning but miles of difference in the end.
——Article from croswalk.com—–
aaaaannnndddddddd……… why do you torture yourself and listen to the “sermons” from yankie frankie and the like??
You have a lot of fortitude to torture yourself in such manner!!
“Let me tell you my thoughts on Peace and Jesus. The peace that comes from knowing Jesus helps when you fully understand that everything (and I mean everything) that happens in this world is ordained (or allowed) by God. The good, the bad, and the in-between all happen with God’s permission.”
WOW! Can’t believe I’m hearing this from you. Look’s like those cigars and brews at McMennimen’s are finally paying off!!!! Tell the fellaz I said WHASSUUPPP!!! And don’t punk out by saying “allowed”, you know it want to say “ordained”.
Ask, thanks for that wonderful article.
Yes they are. But now that you are gone, its kinda lonely being in the Cypress Room all by myself.
so…. I’m for a City Biz Church blog get together. Masks and disguises welcome. Has this been considered before?
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When I come up (one of these days), me, you and the fellas gotta go hang out at McMennimen’s and catch up. And ask your bitter brother has he found it in his heart to forgive me for taking another coaching position his Senior year. He was my favorite player to coach, only guy I knew that did everything with his right hand, even when he would be on the left side of the court!!!!
Peace is trusting God even when he doesn’t make sense. Knowing that even if good things don’t happen he is still in control. Life sucks sometimes. God disappoints you but he never fails. Peace is trusting that in spite of all those things God is still in control.
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Okay, now I’m curious. Shaun’s still happy with the BT world, near as I know. And I’m not sure he played basketball his Senior year.
But who is Negrodamus?
Blessings!
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Negrodamus is the man that knows all…
Let me know when you are coming up next and we should set something up. You can email me at Frankdamazio@hotmail.com…
or at mortonjp14@hotmail.com if it makes you feel more comfortable. And while I can't speak for Justin, if you taught me anything it is "Left hand on the Left side and right hand on the right side".
I will definetly do that. I’m coming up hopefully by March and when you get a chance go get the book “In Jesus Name” by Henri Nouwen, it deals with a lot of what you and Justin discuss on this blog, pretty sick book on all the shenanigans that we deal with in Christendom.
Yes. Because I was an unathletic 5'10" white guy. What did you expect? You were coaching at Temple Christian. The really good white religious athletes all go to Jesuit.
And I'm not bitter at all. Playing basketball was about the only redeeming aspect of going to Temple Christian. At any other school, I wouldn't have gotten to play. Honestly, it's the one thing about highschool that I miss and that I felt I learned anything. Well, that and Miss Coleman's English class.
I was just messin’ with you, just wanted to hear you chime in. You and Donnell Cox were hands down two of the fastest players I ever coached at TCHS! You and John Paul are hilarious! I check on your guys blog every so often to read your posts, I think it’s excellent. In fact, I had a friend from back in the day in town and we went to lunch and she was pissed at your guys blog because ya’ll whacked her dad in one of your post. Boy ole boy it was a little heated at the lunch table trying defend what you guys are doing. Keep it up and if I am in DC I will let you take me to lunch because I know you are making “big paper” as an attorney.
I was reading through this last night, and didn’t read what ‘askgodforit’ posted because my eyes were starting to water and I was tired.
That was a really good post ‘askgodforit’! Jesus said the greatest commandment was to “love the Lord thy God with all your heart, soul and mind” (Matt.22:37) I think most of Christianity in our day has veered 3 degrees or more!
RP, your thoughts on how shallow the gospel presentation is at CBC was right on. It seems they never get around to the ‘how’ part of making Christianity real for people today. It makes me think they don’t know themselves, or they have substituted material prosperity and ‘belonging’ to their church for a real relationship with Christ.
I will, however, have to differ from your thoughts about God ordaining EVERYTHING that happens in this world. I believe that this world is a fallen place, and is currently under the control of the evil one. 1 John 5:19 tells us, “We know that we are of God, and the whole world lies in the power of the evil one.” In Luke 4:5-6, Jesus is being tempted by satan, “And he led Him up and showed Him all the kingdoms of the world in a moment of time. And the devil said to Him, I will give You all this domain and it’s glory; for it has been handed over to me, and I give it to whomever I wish.”
We are aliens here, representing another kingdom. We should be showing this world what things would be like if Christ was in control. His complete control will come later, as described in Revelation 10:15, “The kingdom of the world has become the kingdom of our Lord, and of His Christ; and He will reign forever and ever.”
Bad things can and do happen, that are not the will of God. This is why we should pray daily not to be led into temptation and to be delivered from the evil one. (The Lords’ Prayer) We are at war here, and behind enemy lines. We suffer and take casualties, but they are not all from God’s hand. (He does prune and chastise His own, but I don’t include murder, rape, torture as being from Him)
Thanks for giving me a place to post up my thoughts! I tried to be to the point and keep it short, but it is a large subject. I’d enjoy hearing other opinions!
from whatHesaid from a different location.
That sounds just like what all the sermons at CBC are like.. horrible.
so so horrible.
UGH
Ok, so I just listened to the “peace” sermon. And all I can say is… aaaaargh!!! What’s the deal with these self-centered sermons? These sermons that infer that God exists for our benefit?
Does God give us peace? Yes. Does He give us all these other things (think Matt 6:33). And Psalm 103 says “Forget not all of His benefits…”
But they are BY-PRODUCTS of the main thing. If you entice people to God because of the benefits, then you will have very bitter people after awhile. (Yes! I used the word!) And you will have people who have no idea what wrath and repentance mean. He mentions John 3:16 and talks about the gift, but skips over the “perish” part. Well, that’s the reason for the gift!
Before I start a sermon of my own, let me quote John Piper:
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Hey man, how’s it going? You may remember me from a long trip in a U-Haul all the way from Klamath Falls to PDX hauling everyone’s luggage. To this day I’ve still kept that secret.
Merry Christmas to you and your family.
You mean me letting you drive without a drivers liscense!!! LOL!!! Good times, very good times…
Hey, I think I did a pretty good job. (You slept through the scary parts anyway.)
Hopefully a glass of Glenlivet and maybe a Montecristo together will be in our future one day.
Let’s do it BK…We need to catch up.
Why don’t you start your own church? It sounds like you know everything.
He has. It’s called City Business Church.
It bears a striking resemblance to a certain large breasted church in NE Portland.
How many members to your large breasted church?
depends on cup size
(duh! give an opening like that… sheesh.)
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Words like duh and sheesh? Sounds like you’re a sharp induvidual.
I see what you did there. LOL
Hundreds of thousands. (I can only wait until our counter hits two million. And then I can say we reach millions). Anywhoo… thanks so much for attending today's service, Ryan.
Lol.
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Ummm…. uh… errr… that really should be “Induhvidual”:
http://www.unitedmedia.com/comics/dilbert/dnrc/html/report_an_induhvidual.html
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i guess you’re write!
Hey when did you guys go to TCH? Just wondering if I know you
AskGodforit! While I recognize there is knowledge and depth about your thoughts, I believe you pushed it too much. Marc Estes is an amazing christian. His faith and believe in Jesus are without any doubt real and genuine. I understand however what you meant to say and I agree that a church sermon can be so short and schematic some time. Still Marc was right about that gift. You don’t need theology to make sense of things. Jesus is a gift. Receiving Him, you have to receive all about Him… that is where ‘unwrap’ comes about… Bible study my brother…. Open your Bible, read for the beginning just the New Testament,,, find who He was, where He came from, what He wanted, what he did for what he wanted… and so on… This is unwrapping. When you find out enough see what changes are to be made in your life or if something inside of you will be stirred to change… and that again, is called ‘applying’. Marc assumed that saying those things most of people would understand the meaning. I believe you are right that many people might have gone home with questions and I also recognize in you the thirst for depth and living water. Don’ t waste energy criticizing a church or a preacher, just do your part and God who looks at each of us individually will bless you abundantly;
And for those who are wandering why Bible College and what they might teach you, don’t just wonder, go and see. I for one, had received great richness from that College. Many go in and few come out with it. Why? Not too many have the patience to keep their eyes on the price. Who do, God works wonders through their lives across USA and across the whole world.
I disagree. I don’t think Marc assumed most people would understand. I think (and this is from years of listening to CBC sermons) that the pastors at City Bible Church are far to shallow to dig into any one subject in depth. They stick to generic ideas that are sound good but could mean any number of things. They are far to afraid to offend anyone and loose their status. This is, of course, just my opinion…but I am sort of an expert on CBC.
Still, how does one apply peace? How do you unwrap peace? It is an inner quality that is proven in moments that are not peaceful. I am peaceful right now because I am sitting down about to eat some sloppy joe’s with the family. I won’t be peaceful if I don’t get any job calls this week. What I will do in the case there is no work for me this week, is take my care and concern to Jesus and ask Him to grant me strength and peace. I cannot make it happen. Peace is found in my trust in Jesus.
I would love to write more but my wife is telling me the kids are starving the sloppy joes need makin’.
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Is this Joel Osteen? Lots of mile wide but an inch deep type of stuff here.
Does any one know whats going on at Family Bible church in Washington? Just wondering? Heard gossip and wonder how true it is
We don’t gossip here.
What a great article! Really makes you think… and explains a lot of things in a lot of very understandable ways, ways I didn’t get at PBC or my years at BT/CBC. Thank you for posting it.
Makes me wonder… all my years there (until I reached highschool), I believed that if you didn’t go to a church like CBC, you wouldn’t be going to heaven, or at least, you wouldn’t be as important in heaven (it was one of things that everyone believed, but never spoke of in conversation). Presbyterians, Baptists, Catholics, anyone who didn’t go to church, etc. You get the idea. Even if they obviously loved God, acknowledge Jesus as His Son – the perfect Sacrificial Lamb who gave His life for our sins… they wouldn’t be going to heaven, because they weren’t from my church. When I visited a friend’s church, the communion wafers were a different size than the stale ones at CBC and I prayed God would forgive me for taking communion that wasn’t right… I took the communion, because I had no choice (and OBVIOUSLY didn’t understand), but I felt guilty for being “bad”. Even at that very young age, the only way I knew was my Bible Temple way.
I’ve grown to realize, too, that the effort so many my age make to be noticed in the church, to be on stage, to have a title, to lead worthless Bible lessons without the Bible… it’s all for show, it’s all because they feel empty, it’s all because focus is so wharped.
So, my question of the day… what can I possibly do? So many of the people in that church are people I love, care about, and concerned for, pray for, and spend hours each week encouraging and reaching whenever I can. I don’t say that to brag and I honestly hope these convoluded words and sentences make sense in the end. I know I’ve grown controlling. I know I’ve grown very legalistic. I know it’s damaged more than one emotion and one life. I HATE that. I’m absolutely terrified of continuing this way. I want to help those who are stuck in the same pattern I’m only beginning to break with the Lord’s help and the counsel of some very wise friends and family. I haven’t been allowed to think on my own, to pray on my own, to worship on my own. When those I love and care about face trials and tribulations, they are not strong enough to stand, because they have not been taught or brought to a place where they even know “how” to have a personal relationship with God.
How do I help those trapped, find grace and peace in a relationship with the Lord, when I’m struggling with my own issues? In scary and often troubling circumstances, peace is something I never seem to lack and I thank God for that. But, I lack so much else. I’m not qualified. I’m not healed. I’m not refreshed. I’m not able to help or guide or criticize without having it turn towards me… just as this post does.
I’m scared for the others. I’m unsure how to help.
Recently, I went through the entire New Testament, in depth in devotions – one of the absolute best things I have ever done. MOST of the material I read was brand new to me and came ALIVE for the first time. The most amazing thing. How many of my friends have yet to experience such an amazing feeling as to know… I understand! I know I only have scratched the surface and will continue to learn as much as I can, but how can a life devoted to the church yield so little in terms of truly understanding what and why and how a relationship with God actually… is, does, and…?!
Thanks for letting me write here. My thought process this late at night is confusing at best. But, it allows me to sort out those thoughts that confuse me, in a safe environment without alienating my friends who haven’t quite become so desperate or questioning of their authority figures.
Don’t stop what you do. It has helped a lot. And, I’m interested to find out more about the writer of the article… any books?
Sorry. The article I referred to is in the first comment in reply to this post. Is “Insight for Living” a book easily found? I think I’ll do a search…
——Article from croswalk.com—–
Morality is Not the Point- By Dave Carl – Insight for Living
YEP! That’s because they are only repeating what they’ve been shown, doing what they’ve been taught, acting how others before them have acted. Young people in charismatic circles don’t think for themselves. Everyone plays follow the leader and when the new blood rises up the ranks to get some microphone time they just do what everyone else before them did, it’s a vicious cycle that has slowly destroyed the heart of what church is suppose to be.
You answered your own question already…because it’s “a life devoted to the church” not a life devoted to Jesus. Christians today care more about what their pastor thinks of them then God. They are more concerned with the programs, the functions, the structure, then actually doing His will. They would rather look good pretending to serve God, then look bad truly serving God. It’s a sad state of the times we live in.