I know I know, people don't like talking about this subject because it gets way too heated. However, I think Mark Driscoll of Mars Hill Church in the Seattle area does a good job of summing up the differences between Calvinism and Arminianism for those who don't quite get the differences: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=–iC5KHqaZk
The best part is what he says near the end around the 7:24 mark. The bottom line is we can debate this and share our different views but we don't need to divide over this. We can disagree on this but still love each other because no matter what, it's about accepting and serving Christ more then anything else.
That was a good informative video. I didn’t realize that Calvin’s 5 points were made in response to the other position. I agree that the arguments between the two camps shouldn’t be a point of fellowship.